Gee, no wonder these guys have a problem with women.
I first heard this term "Incel" when somebody used it to label me.
I quite literally had no idea what they were talking about, but I looked it up:
Incel: aka "involuntarily celibate", a person (usually male) who has a horrible personality and treats women like sexual objects and thinks his lack of a sex life comes from being "ugly" when its really just his blatant sexism and terrible attitude. incels have little to no self awareness; even when they see other "ugly" men with girlfriends, they consider these men to be tricksters who have somehow beat the system and can get women despite being cursed with unattractiveness (in other words, theyre respectful to women and women are attracted to their personalities, but incels cant comprehend such a phenomenon). they believe that women owe them sex, and many of the more extreme incels like to spend time in incel communities on the internet coming up with ways to make women have sex with them (often involving genocide of people of color, genocide of "Chads" (men who have sex), taking rights away from women, raping them, having sex with women's dead bodies, and other horrid, disgusting things. they cant understand that that is PRECISELY why women want nothing to do with them).
Okay, well there are plenty of derogatory things I could be called, that might actually reflect my character in some way, but this ain't it.
Apparently that recent attack in Canada is being blamed on one of these losers.
Men hating on women is certainly nothing new, and this does nothing more than put a new label on an age old problem.
For the record nobody owes anybody sex, or even affection.
Those are things you earn.
And relationships, no matter how awesome they may begin, often end with hurt feelings and even outright anger.
I have certainly been there myself.
But to hate on an entire gender just because you are unlucky at love, is certainly never going to convince that gender that you are worthy of their time or affection.
You have to try to be a better you, before you can expect others to be a better them.
Source https://ift.tt/2HAS2YU
